Breadwinner

Carina quit her job today, cutting our yearly income by half. I'm now in the position to be the sole source of income for the four of us, which is a terrifying prospect.

But at the same time, I'm super excited for Carina. She had the twins in high school, and entered the full-time working world shortly after, without any real time for herself. Whereas I had my college years with which to screw around, Carina never enjoyed that. She's very much looking forward to having some time to dedicate to the things about which she's really passionate. She's also looking forward to more quality time with the kids before and after school.

It's now going to be a real challenge for me not to make jokes about her being the stereotypical housewife ...

9 Comments

On Feb 11th, 2005 at 09:58am Andrea added:

Ooh, sounds like an exciting time ahead for the two of you. I hope things will go as planned, Scott.

(On another note, did you get email some time ago? If you're interested, I started posting write-ups about my poetry database thingy on Sunday and will add part 3 today.)

On Feb 11th, 2005 at 05:34pm Dr.Nik added:

Wah! Same thing over here! Anastasia is putting in her notice next week and will be free free by the first of march.

The fund changes do suck royally but beans and rice are cheap and the savings on Doggie Daycare and gas should add up a bit.

-np-

On Feb 12th, 2005 at 03:03am RoudyBob added:

Good luck, buddy. Don't let the pressure get to you. And tell Carina I am green with envy. ;-)

On Feb 14th, 2005 at 05:56pm Kelly added:

I am jealous. Although I merely have the dog at home, and she is pretty stable right now... I would love to not work. I mean it. I have so much I want to do and always feel there isn't enough time to do it.

On Feb 15th, 2005 at 02:01am Elfboy added:

Skippy, you are a man of action and principle. You and your lovely wife, along witht he kiddies, will be fine. Just no more of those all night benders you're so fond of. ;)

On Feb 15th, 2005 at 02:12am skippy added:

The all-night benders of which I am fond -- jeeez!

On Feb 15th, 2005 at 03:41pm BP added:

Skippy, I'm so happy that you are so supportive! I'm sure everything will turn out for the best! Brooke

On Feb 15th, 2005 at 08:15pm Sara C added:

As a short-term housewife, I found jokes and comments to be very hurtful. People out of work tend to get busy with major projects (like I did with securing a mortgage, moving, etc.) and it feels like having a full-time job. The main thing is to appreciate what Carina and other stay-at-home mothers bring to their families' lives. David was grateful for everything I accomplished for us.

On Feb 16th, 2005 at 05:12pm skippy added:

Thanks for the positive support, everyone; and especially to Sara. I made my comment half-joking, but your response is very helpful toward reminding me that not working does not necessarily mean lazing about the house eating bon-bons all day!