Educator

Last week Tom invited me to speak to his 7th grade classes about my experiences in Ukraine. His students are learning about Eastern Europe in history currently, and Tom wanted to provide some flavor to the lessons in the text, as well as give the kids an opportunity to ask questions about things of particular interest to them. I quickly agreed to his invitation, and today spoke to his class.

I graduated from the elementary school at which Tom teaches in 1988, and I don't think I've been back inside since 1990. The building has changed an awful lot since I was a student, and it was a real treat to walk through the halls comparing my memory to the current construction. I hated going to school there, though looking back, of course, I value very highly the education I received.

I knew the students wouldn't be satisfied with a long, boring lecture, and I knew that I wasn't qualified to give such a lecture, anyway, so I selected a few photos from our trip as examples of items to discuss that I felt the kids would understand and find interesting. The cultural tradition of the Ukrainian wedding, along with traditional Ukrainian clothing, were all well received by the kids, and they asked a few questions. They were most interested, of course, in the examples of Ukrainian traffic and the creative driving practices that are so common there. The kids asked some surprisingly insightful questions about the nature and depth of corruption when I explained why Ukrainians drive the way they do. An example of Ukrainian tap water was also cause for much disucssion.

It was only a cursory introduction to some of the cultural and lifestyle differences between the U.S. and Ukraine, but I think the kids really did find it useful and interesting. I know I felt that the experience was enlightening, and I can see why Tom has been so satisfied as an educator. Seeing him handle the class was also a treat for me, and it's clear that he's very good at his job. Teaching is a tough vocation, and I greatly admire those with the fortitude and discipline to do it.

Ukraine 2007, Part 4

Sunday morning we all awoke late, and then piled into a bus for a short trip to the farm homestead of one of Igor's friends. Here we were presented with yet another fabulous feast of food and drink. We were all crowded into a single room, with a large fireplace at the far end. Over this fire fresh meat was being cooked, and the aroma of the meat cooking plus the warm smell of the fire made us all feel very calm and content. We ate slowly, and enjoyed a few toasts, as we all settled into comfortable conversation. After a time, Igor asked several of us if we'd like to play paintball! Kyle, Jeff and I consented, and Igor got several of his Ukrainian friends to join us. We played two rounds, and had an absolute ball! I'm pretty sure my dad took photos of the event, and if he posts them to Flickr I hope he'll drop a link in the comments.

After more toasts and food, we finally prepared to leave for the bus ride back to Kiev. In the U.S. we often have one more drink "for the road". In Ukraine, they have one more toast "for the horse", to celebrate and honor the horse that pulls the carriage. We obviously didn't ride a horse-drawn carriage, but that didn't stop us from toasting the horse -- in this case the engine of the bus -- for safety!

Monday morning we rose early for an excursion to the Chernobyl Exclusion Zone. I won't detail here the scientific and historical information, as much of it is available online already. My sister's blog posts are much more detailed than mine would ever be, anyway:

Our guide for the trip to the Exclusion Zone was the same Sergii Mirnyi who had taken Ann on her trips. He was a delightful, intelligent man who is clearly passionate about his work. Also joining us was a young man named Sasha, a former resident of the town of Prypiat. His personal insight into the now-abandoned town was a striking addition to our tour.

Along the way to the reactor site, we passed a small area which had once contained houses. After the explosion, the houses were razed, and bulldozed over. Sergii called his a "graveyard for houses".
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While squatting down to take the photo above, Sergii called to me and said "I've just remembered that men are not permitted to place their gonads close to the ground!" He went on to say that it was a silly rule, and that there was no real threat to my reproductive organs on this trip, but rules are rules and we could get ejected from the Zone if anyone caught me doing it again.

At the town of Prypiat, Sasha took us to the apartment building in which he lived as a young boy. It was eerie to walk through the vacant town, and especially eerie to walk through the deserted building. What he called an apartment building was more aptly called a dormitory: the apartments lacked kitchens, as most meals were eaten in a large cafeteria on the first floor.
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Inside Sasha's former apartment was something of an odd shrine. Some time ago Sasha had placed a few hrivna (the Ukrainian currency) on the window sill, in order to determine if people were still looting the place. He thought surely that a bit of hard cash would be taken, but instead the visitors that had come in his absence had left their own money on the window sill!
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I had to consciously remind myself that the town was abandoned, and that the desolation and ruin was the result primarily of age, because the place felt like a warzone. After the disaster, the residents were told that the evacuation would be temporary, and that they'd likely return home within a couple of days. As a result, few people took many of their belongings with them. When the evacuation was made permanent, the town of Prypiat was ripe for looting. Over the years as more and more stuff was extracted, the looters became more and more thrifty, going so far as to rip out window frames in order to get money for the raw metal.

Sasha had with him a photo book showing the town in its prime, filled with people happily living their lives. At several places he would stand and hold open the book. We would crowd around behind him and look first at the picture he was showing, and then the barren reality of that location today.
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Sasha runs the pripyat.com website, which was originally created to help the displaced residents stay in touch with one another all these years later. It's since become a cornerstone of a new NGO working to make the town into an official memorial / museum. It's a snapshot in time of Soviet culture, as well as a grim reminder of the disaster of 1986.

Sergii shared with us a lot of fascinating information. When the reactor blew, the radiation detection equipment simply could not provide an accurate measurement of the radiation because no one had ever expected it to be that high. The disaster was compounded by the fact that the officials had never made any kind of disaster recovery plan: the only contingency planning ever done was military, not civil. The sarcophagus, or shelter, was built in just a couple of months with no real architectural planning or design.

At the reactor site itself is an administrative building which contains a visitor's center. There one can see a cut-out model of the reactor in it's (mostly) current state while an official representative explains to you a brief history of the clean-up work done so far, and what future plans for the new sarcophagus include.
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And of course, as good Ohio State Buckeyes, we had to perform the obligatory O-H-I-O in front of the reactor:
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On the way out of the Exclusion Zone, we stopped at the home of a little babushka, where she lived all alone. She evacuated with the others in 1986, but a year later when her mother died she moved back to her family home.
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There are, in fact, several hundred people living permanently throughout the Exclusion Zone.

You can see all of my photos from my trip to the Exclusion Zone on Flickr.

Ukraine 2007, Part 3

The wedding on Saturday wasn't until 2 PM, so we had some free time in the morning. Within walking distance from the hotel was a World War II era bunker built into several meters of solid rock.
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The tour guide explained that the bunker was originally constructed before WWII, ostensibly for use in the event of an invasion from Poland, but was quickly appropriated by the Soviet military during WWII. What the bunker was used for by the Soviets is not entirely clear, as all official records are kept under lock and key in Moscow. Much of what is known about the bunker comes from Germany, and the records that the German army kept when they occupied Korosten and the bunker. What is known is that the men tasked with the construction of the facility were all executed upon its completion.
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Our tour guide walked us through several rooms, and presented to us many of the accouterments and relics found in the surrounding area. There were uniforms, gas masks, shells and ammunition, and quite a bit more. One of the more interesting items on display in the bunker was a baby carrier designed to protect from chemical warfare.
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After the tour, we climbed a steep flight of stairs to the top of the rock containing the bunker, and were afforded a glorious view of the park in which the bunker is nestled.
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We trekked back to the hotel, and after a quick freshening up we congregated in the lobby. Ann and Igor led us across the street to the wedding facility. The Ukrainian state does not formally recognize religious weddings, so many people in Ukraine opt for both a civil and a church wedding. Ann and Igor elected to only have the required civil ceremony, which was held in a very nice chapel-like room in a fairly nondescript building. The civil service is fast and no-nonsense, and it felt something like a Las Vegas drive-through wedding: when we arrived, another couple was about to wed, so we waited in the lobby. It wasn't five minutes later that they came out and we shuffled in.
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After a few brief remarks from the officiant, Ann and Igor approached the desk and signed their names, confirming their intent to marry.
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They shared a drink, and then a kiss, and finally had a ceremonial knot tied around their arms to symbolize their union.
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Finally, Ann and Igor bowed to their parents in gratitude, and the parents expressed their consent and affection for the newlyweds. After that, we all walked across the street back to the hotel for the reception.

The wedding reception was a most unique experience. Ann had told us when we arrived some of what to expect. Originally they had planned a small, intimate reception so that folks could celebrate together without a lot of fuss or hooplah. When Igor made the final preparations, he announced to Ann that they had booked a live band, a wedding planner, and even arranged for fireworks! (This last was not such a big deal, it turns out: there are fireworks almost every night in Kiev!) Ann was a little anxious, not knowing entirely what to expect from the decidedly more complicated reception.

When we entered the reception hall there was another table laden with food and drink.
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We feasted through the night, enjoying the delicious food and making many toasts. The "wedding planner" turned out to be a sort of master of ceremonies, making sure that the evening moved along without too many awkward pauses. She did a surprisingly sophisticated job of not pushing things too fast, though, so that the entire evening was casually paced for everyone's enjoyment. I'd never seen anything like this wedding planner in the U.S., and frankly that's a shame because she did a superb job coordinating events throughout the entire reception! She worked closely with the band to ensure music selections kept the pace moving, while slowing things down sufficiently to make time for toasts. She spoke in private with various guests to learn things about Ann and Igor, and she incorporated these facts into her routine, or used them as introductions when asking someone else to present a new toast.

After we'd been plenty lubricated by toasts, the wedding planner asked us all to participate in a number of games. The Americans in the audience were a little hesitant, not knowing what to expect, but it proved to be uproariously funny, and made for some of the more entertaining parts of the evening. Without the facilitation of this wedding planner, there would have been very little natural interaction between the Ukrainians and the Americans at the reception, since we were separated by language and culture. With her assistance, though, we were able to breach these barriers to become friends and thoroughly enjoy ourselves.

The formal reception was scheduled from 3 PM to 11 PM. Around 9:30 our energy began to wane, so several of Igor's friends brought forth acoustic guitars. They sang songs in Ukrainian, and while I didn't understand any of the words, it was clearly a very emotional addition to the celebration. When the reservation on the event hall expired, the celebration moved up to the newlywed's wedding suite. I shared a few more toasts, and then excused myself to collapse in my room.

It was a wonderful ceremony and celebration, and I am proud and honored to have been able to share it with my sister. I'm glad that my kids got to see such a unique cultural event. And I'm extremely happy for Ann and Igor.

Ukraine 2007, Part 2

Friday morning Igor took me for a brief tour of the sites of interest around their apartment. It was cold and drizzly, so it wasn't ideal tourism weather; and Igor's English, while vastly superior to my Ukranian, was sufficiently limited to make in-depth communication hard. This was a real point of frustration for me because Igor is an extremely intelligent fellow, and he knows a lot about Ukranian history. While walking around, I asked Igor how long he'd been living in Kiev (~9 months) and whether he liked it there. Without hesitation he replied "I am Korosten man!"

In the early afternoon we took a bus from Kiev to Korosten, Igor's home town. We checked into the hotel, and then took taxis to Igor's parents' house for dinner. Ann had made a few small remarks about the Ukrainian feast tradition: it is customary for the host to keep the table filled with food, and to ensure that the guests always have food on their plates. Similarly, there are a lot of toasts made through the meal, and one's glass will rarely be empty. Ann's words failed utterly to prepare us for what we saw, and words fail completely to describe what it was like to enjoy the feast.

There's a program on public radio that I occasionally listen to called The Splendid Table, "the show for people who love to eat". These people have no idea what a splendid table looks like.
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There was -- literally -- no free space on the table, and yet additional dishes kept being delivered! The food was extraordinary, and we all ate so much. There was fish, chicken, vegetables, and fresh rabbit. Igor's father raises rabbits, and he was very happy that we all enjoyed them so much. I asked, casually, how many rabbits he had, but was informed that it's bad luck for one to count their livestock. In addition to such an abundance of food was a veritable tidal wave of booze. We started with whiskey, and celebrated toast after toast after toast. Along the way we also had their homemade wine, and a not-insubstantial quantity of vodka.
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In the Ukrainian tradition, we all exchanged gifts, and there was tremendous merriment and happiness all around. The feeling of warmth, love, and hospitality kept us all animated and energized for a very, very long time. Ann and Igor were clearly exhausted from their duties as the only translators at the event, but they were clearly having at least as much fun as the rest of us. Their faces were filled with smiles through the entire evening.

I thought I'd seen feasts before. I thought that some of the Thanksgiving tables mom prepared when I was a kid were things of glory. These all pale in comparison to the feast we had at Igor's parents!

Ukraine 2007, Part 1

Thursday morning we flew to Kiev, Ukraine with a brief layover in Riga, Latvia. The Kiev airport was markedly different from anything we had yet experienced, and was something of a portent of things to come. There are very few organized lines, instead folks just congeal into large masses and fight their way to the front. Ann met us just outside passport control, and took us to the taxi that she had waiting. We had a pleasant catching-up in the taxi, which was a nice distraction from the terror induced by driving in Kiev.

There are traffic laws in Ukraine, but they aren't meaningfully enforced. As such, they aren't generally followed. The police often pull over motorists for no specific reason, and detain them until they can trump up a charge or until the driver gets frustrated with the delay. Either way, both situations are usually resolved with a bribe. After the exchange of money, the motorist is permitted to go on their way. Since anyone can get pulled over at almost any time, there's no real incentive to obeying what rules might exist. Ann commented to us that it's quite common for cars to drive on the sidewalks, and then honk at the pedestrians to get out of their way. We were incredulous at first, but it didn't take too long before we witnessed several examples of exactly this.

The taxi dropped us off at the apartment at which we were staying, where we unloaded our luggage and had a quick celebratory toast of Jameson Irish Whiskey. This was to be the first of innumerable toasts and shots of alcohol. We walked with Ann back to her apartment, where we met my dad, my son Kyle, and my aunt Mary Ellen. Shortly thereafter we were joined by Dick and Madeline, and then a man named Serge who was to be our guide to the Chernobyl Exclusion Zone. More toasts were made, and drinks consumed, and there was a lot of laughter. Finally Igor came home from work, and we got to meet the groom-to-be. He was a very warm, friendly person and we all looked forward to getting to know him better in the days to come.

It was a nice start to a terrific weekend, and an overall wonderful visit filled with family.

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